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When I told him how the timing really didn't work for me, and maybe we could get some lunch sometime, his response was 'That will never happen.' To this day, I still get creepy G-chats from him in the middle of the night." “It’s tough when you go out and you’re ready to throw down hundreds of dollars on a bill, and then at the end of the night the check is completely comped [leaving only a tip to be paid in cash].
And your date only has a card, and they’re like ‘well, shit.’” "The back-of-house consistently hook up with, or start dating, the hostesses [...] I believe it's that way because the back-of-house guys can talk about their ambitions and dreams of owning a restaurant, their culinary vision, etc.
The benefit vests each year that Joe remains employed, and the entire amount only becomes payable at the end of year 10 if Joe is still employed by ABC.
It is now the beginning of year 10 and ABC is concerned about cash flow due to recent downturns in its financial health.
College-aged girls eat that stuff up because they want to be around people that already have passion and a life plan." "Industry people on dates indulge... We spend most of our days bringing people awesome food and drinks and we want to take in as much as we can when we are off." "It's hard to not start [hooking up] with someone when you work in a restaurant because you're together all the time late at night.
So then after work (or during work) you start drinking, then you go out... LOL." "Sometimes alcohol influences bad decisions, and that's definitely more present in the restaurant industry dating realm than with others.
Thus, termination of the ABC plan really hurts Joe because the cash payment still must be made and the termination will be due primarily to a downturn in ABC’s financial health.
Generally, unless certain exemptions apply, the modification or termination of a plan will be a “plan failure” which results in income acceleration and penalties: total amounts deferred under the plan become includible in the employee’s gross income and are also subject to an additional 20% penalty.
In order to terminate a plan without a plan failure, there are several requirements that must be met.
One requirement is that termination not be due to a “downturn” of the employer’s financial health.
A few years later, when I was the sous chef, I messed around with some of my cooks, too." "I once went to a restaurant on a date with another industry guy, said hello to the hostess who I knew through friends (but honestly, she seems like a real bitch), mentioned who would be joining me, and her response was 'Oh, I'm very familiar with John Doe.' So I can only assume they had hooked up, too." "The people working [in restaurants, especially NYC restaurants] are usually super creative, and working to be able to support their careers (actors, artists, singers, musicians, etc.).
So if they date outside of the industry, [the significant others] are usually creative themselves." "[The female waitstaff] used to talk about how we wouldn't want to be on Tinder, and then have someone see us at work.